I'm a relationship intuitive for the smart and weary.

You've done the therapy. Read the books. Tried the frameworks. It may have even helped, for a while...until it didn't.

You're self-aware, capable, and honestly exhausted by how much work you've already done. You might even be thinking...this healing journey is never-ending.

Something's still stuck.

Not because you're broken. Not because you're not trying hard enough.

But because the cognitive approach has limits—and you've hit them.

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The Thing No One Else Gets:

You try to explain what you're dealing with and people give you feedback that completely misses the point.

They latch onto the surface issue. They offer solutions to problems you're not actually having. They talk to you about who you are and who you should be, and their own biased definitition of right and wrong. They don't hear what you're emphasizing—the thing that's actually at the heart of it.

I hear what you're emphasizing.

And I help you build on it, pivot away from it when needed, or explore the deeper pattern it's masking.

This isn't a technique I learned. This is lineage work.

I come from threshold-walkers—immigrants, survivors, people who've had to read between languages and cultures to survive. I was raised between worlds. I lost my native accent and gained a foreign one in my birth language. I learned to read what people mean beneath what they say because survival required it.

My Brazilian lineage includes Afro-Brazilian spiritual traditions. I was identified as a daughter of Young Iemanjá (emotional depth, holding through transformation) and Oxaguiã (cutting through to truth), with Vovó (grandmother wisdom) guiding me.

I grew up immersed in Gurdjieff's 4th Way communities—trained in self-observation and seeing unconscious patterns before I had words for what I was doing. My parents, complicated beings as they were, taught me philosophy and critical thinking, curiosity and the possibility of something more than what the material world shows us.

My third eye opened during Vipassana in 2016. I did nothing with it for years, treating all of the odd, spiritual and energetic experiences as isolated incidents that required suspending disbelief. Then the message got louder: "You're psychic and you better fucking do something about it."

So I did.

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If you are technically self-aware but still exhausted by the circular noise of your own patterns, you don't need another explanation—you need a release. I invite you to a one-hour pattern disruption on February 18th called Softening the Spiral, where we move beyond the rationale of your story and anchor into Grace as a functional, somatic compass for the monotony of life.

Through forty minutes of resonance and twenty minutes of live coaching, we will quiet the undercurrent of anxiety and find the direction worth walking in.

I wanna join the masterclass!

Who This Is For:

You're standing at a threshold.

Maybe it's:

A relationship revealing patterns you thought you'd already worked through
A career shift you can feel but can't yet name
An identity that's outgrown its container
A creative block your brilliant brain can't think through
A transition that feels bigger than the situation itself
A life-changing event that hit too hard for you to keep going through your regular day as if nothing had changed

You know something's changing. You just can't see to what yet.

That's exactly where my work begins.

How This Works:

I don't have a predetermined method, though I was trained a range of tools and practices. I don't work from scripts or frameworks—I read what's underneath.

What you're carrying. What's masking itself as something else. What wants to shift but doesn't have language yet.

The work is intuitive, emergent, and co-created in real time based on what you bring and what wants to move.

My intuition comes through felt sense, body knowing, heightened perception. I read the space between your words. I sense where energy is stuck and where it wants to move.

Sometimes that looks like deep emotional holding. Sometimes it's cutting through your cognitive loops to get to what's real. Sometimes it's gentle wisdom reminding you there's a way through.

I work with what's alive in the moment—not what your brain thinks should be happening.

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About Rebecca

I work at the intersection of communication, emotional processing, and identity.

My background includes hypnosis, NLP, mediation, and years of sitting with people in moments where their old ways of being no longer fit.

What matters more than technique is how I hold space: without urgency, without performance, without hierarchy.

I’m not here to lead you. I’m here to help you hear yourself clearly again.

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Not sure where you fit?

You don't need to decide perfectly. Some questions to ask yourself:

Do I want clarity now, or change over time?

Am I working with one knot, or an entire system?

Do I want support only during sessions, or presence throughout my week?

Let your intuition answer, not your productivity brain.

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Have questions? Contact me.