An extension of the 1:1 support, this work begins before we're all in the room together.

First, it's each of you alone with me. A full conversation, separately, where I get to understand who you are and what you're carrying before we all sit together. We don't focus on the problem as the other person is experiencing it, only on how you're living through it and whatever more is alive with you at the time of our meeting.

By the time we're all in the same space, I've already heard the differences in how you each think, process, and communicate. I'm coming in equanimous, rather than just 'neutral'—I'm here to hold every perspective with equal weight, and to be honest about what I'm seeing.

What I work on in these containers: perspective, understanding, and the agreements we need to uphold. I'm not here to resolve anything for you, or even to pick sides (unless there's a safety issue). I'm here to shift the conversation, to make visible what's been running underneath it, and to help you find language for things that have only ever come out sideways and caused more chaos.

A single container can move something significant. Continuity matters though, because some things only become possible once safety is established across time and space.

How it works

Each person books a 90-minute session individually ($222). After that, we schedule a joint 2-hour session together ($375). That's the starting container. It can end there, or we can continue cultivating the relationship across time and space.

For Families

Everything above applies, and then some.

Family work carries the added complexity of multiple relational layers operating simultaneously—parent and parent, parent and child, sibling dynamics, the history that lives in the room before anyone opens their mouth, and so much more.
Chosen family, blended family, poly family, foster and adoptive compositions—the container shifts to hold whatever shape the family actually is, not a template of what family is supposed to look like.

The entry point is still the same: I meet each person individually first. The joint work comes after.

If you're navigating something in your family that your usual conversations can't reach, reach out. We'll talk about what's going on and what makes sense.